Importance of positive attitude in life

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Situations are not good or bad our attitude and the way we react to them makes it. So the thing which matters is our attitude and this is what makes the difference. There is a small story which goes like this at a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady. She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken face she started jumping, desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach. The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but it landed on other lady and then that lady reacted in same way than came a waiter. In the relay of throwing, the cockroach, it fell upon the waiter. The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behaviour of the cockroach on his shirt. When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant. The person watching this was ‘SUNDAR PICHAI’ (CEO GOOGLE). He concluded that we should avoid reacting and start responding.

Reactions are always instinctive, whereas responses are always well thought of, and right to save a situation from going out of hands, to avoid cracks in relationship, to avoid taking decisions in anger, anxiety, stress or hurry. And what makes us differentiate between reaction and response, it is our positive attitude that lead us to calm responses.

These days life is so stressed of not only elder or professional people but also of small kids and students like us, it is just because of the wrong attitude that we carry, so what we need to see the positive side of everything instead of focusing on the negative side (“Train your mind to see the good in every situation.“ ). Positive attitude or positive approach in adverse situations will probably not change the situation but because of our right mind-set and positive attitude we will be able to think of better solutions to that problem which surely will provide us better results ( famous saying by Louise Hay “I do not fix my problems I fix my thinking. Then problems fix themselves.”).


Concluding with a famous quote by APJ KALAM “Without positive attitude success is called luck , with positive attitude success is called achievement.”

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  1. Amisha mittalOctober 18, 2017 at 4:38 PM

    Well said Shivi.
    So nice..
    Loved ur thought..
    Really inspired..
    Pls bring up more😘

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  2. KephassharesNovember 8, 2017 at 11:00 PM

    Inspiring posts,positivity is what the world requires,keep sharing

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    1. UnknownJanuary 2, 2019 at 10:33 PM

      Thanks a lot and sorry for the late reply.
      I will come up with new posts soon stay connected.
      #thanksforsupporting
      #yourcommentsmeanslot
      #keepsupporting.

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